Nondual Teachers Perspective on Decisions—David Hoffmeister

Appreciate the following excerpt taken from a transcribed Conversation by David Hoffmeister to Get Nondual Teachers.

It is sort of funny some civilizations we celebrate birth and we, the ego is grieving death. Then you’re able to find a few other cultures, such as in New Orleans, where they actually dance and party when someone dies. There are actually a few cultures in which they grieve when there’s a newborn. You see exactly how reversed? It’s all relative. We cannot state it’s all this way because it is much ado about nothing.

As long as we start to select the form seriously, for example divorce, one person was saying to me my wife, my daughter, my children, are upset about this divorce that is coming about. He said “what would you think, what do you consider this divorce?” I said “yeah it’s a decision and I honor all decisions.” When somebody tells me they are getting divorced I am like oh okay, or when someone tells me they are getting married, fine, or if somebody tells
Me I am likely to commit suicide or test out, okay.
Nondual Teachers have to begin to realize what’s mind and everything is a choice and who are we to tell anybody anything really? Who are we to give advice or make a pronouncement when they say I’m getting a divorce? We should be loving, kind, supportive.

I had been called down to South America a few years back and that I had been invited to return and then all the sudden I started getting phone messages, don’t come, it’s dreadful, my husband went away with another girl and we’re talking divorce today. It was a complete tour that the Holy Spirit was having me down in Argentina and also this affair thing, they believed the Holy Spirit was just like oh stop the entire tour, potential divorce proceeding on here. I said no,no, I purchased the tickets.

So I go down there and the husband who was away with another woman and the spouse, they both picked me up in the same car.
Loved him so much she just called him that the King. The King discovered another woman. However, I had always known him so I return, they both pick me up, and I go oh Maria, oh Maria, oh King.

How can Jesus interact together? Do you think Jesus goes oh I noticed you had an affair? No way. I was only adoring, adoring, adoring, adoring, even if the kids would return to me and go David you do not understand, and he is still living in the home, oh, oh, oh. I said these are conclusions, we must honor and respect decisions. Everything is decisions but it is only when we have the filter of judgment where we come in and proceed awe that is a
Terrible choice. And so me there was very transformation for everybody involved. It simply gave everyone permission to allow all their emotions develop and confront their emotions and confront their decisions. And I kept ringing the bell of innocence, recall we’re
Innocent, everyone is innocent. If a person is guilty guess what this means for your rest?
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